“A Planned and Nurtured life is always better to manage & execute.” RB
Nurturing is an art as well as science. —->Video
Human life is primarily divided into Toddler, Child, Teen, Adult, Mature and Old Age.
We usually observe Adult are not focused about their future till half of their life, Marriage are usually late as professionally you are not settled as you are not focused about future or have not given clear thought what you are going to do or we are not clear about future direction. Reason behind this is that we have not been nurtured during our childhood; even we are not nurtured during teenage.
We would have been nurtured during childhood, we would have started to focus till the teenage about our core nature and accordingly we have been given direction for considering stream for our future. So that at adult age we are ready to take life challenges. To become capable to face challenges, it’s important to be focused about our core nature as early as possible or during Teenage. Earlier we are clear about our core nature, we will be ready to face life challenges. Another view of early nurturing is that as you are ready early in your life, you have extra time to take your life to next level.
Nurturing also helps you in many other ways.
You are not focused, you will lack courage to face challenges and difficulties in your life and it may further lead to mental health problem. Lack of focus may also lead to feelings of sadness, constant irritability, or persistent anxiety, worry, or distress.
Being in this fast pace of world, and in era of nuclear family, life is busy and sometimes it becomes quite tough to focus on growth of Children. The fast pace of life creates isolation within families and gives rise to understanding gap among parents and children. Isolation among family members gives rise to mental problems.
Nurturing the children become little tough task for parents and that gives Importance to Child counseling.
Anyone at any age, from child to adult, may benefit from counseling at points in their life. Children, Teenager and Adults have counseling due to lots of reasons, some wants to learn how to manage feelings like anger and sadness, some want to cop up with loss, some needs help with friendship groups, some wants to be comfortable and want to feel better and most important want to be focused in their life.
A Counsellor can help Children, Teenager, and Youngsters to rid of anxiety, depression, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, behavioural disorder, and other mental health disorder and to be focused in their life.
Counseling is a way where in Counselor creates safe and supportive environment that helps your child to rid of mental problems and be focused. The main aims of counseling are:
• To support the child to make changes in their life
• To learn to understand and cope with difficult emotions
• To identify specific problems
• To identify goals the child would like to work on
Other Benefits of Child Counseling
1. 1. Express Thoughts and Emotions Confidently
Children and teenagers tend to hide their impressions and reactions because of wrong feelings, inability to handle personal problems, low confidence, or high pressure. That’s why some children experience regular nightmares, overeat, and tend to intimate themselves by ruining toys, killing animals, or setting fires. Don’t wait for an issue to grow worst.
Counselor use different ways to assess a child’s action and mental fitness. Many types of child treatment can help children communicate themselves, such as:
• Play therapy
Your child will be given toys to play with while a Counsellor observes to conduct an emotional or mental fitness analysis. Play therapy is effective in helping children who have problems dealing with life problems such as the death of a family member or divorce or any other case in family.
• Awareness-Observable therapy
Your child will learn how his thoughts can affect his mood and behaviour. Your child will be instructing how to identify and deal with negative or distorted thought patterns. This therapy helps in treating mood disorders such as anxiety and depression.
2. Sort Out mental issue Without Force or Pressure
Sometimes, parents can’t figure out what’s exactly the reason for the behavioural change, tantrums, or poor school performance. Your kid might be afraid to talk to you or don’t want to be a cause of frustration and disappointment. Feelings of shame, loneliness, and hopelessness, and undecided personal issues or problems may result in psychological issues. Before it’s too late, it’s important to rule out these problems through child therapy, such as:
• Behaviour therapy
This therapy focuses on changing negative behaviours or “behaviour modification.” The Counsellor will help parents identify behaviours and provide recommendations on how to discourage or encourage a particular behaviour. As a parent, you can change the environmental factors contributing to those behaviours. You’ll also be advised on how to provide appropriate consequences for unacceptable behaviour (e.g., doing a household chore or missing getting a treat).
• Psychodynamic psychotherapy
It is also called as the “talking cure.” The Counseling therapy helps parents figure out the issues and problems that influence how a child acts or thinks. It operates on the theory that the behavior of a child will improve once the inner struggles and hidden feelings are exposing in the open. It is a powerful therapy for youngsters who have uneasiness or depression, as well as dealing with eating disorders, or those who are lashing out due to a behavioral or conduct disorder.
3. Child Counseling Makes Your Child Happier
Youngsters who generally can express themselves are cheerful than those who don’t. By ruling out the source of your child’s unsupportive behaviour and objectively addressing concerns and issues without force or pressure, your child will feel more pleasant talking about his feelings. As a result, your child feels more enjoyable and happier talking to you about matters and problems in the home or school.
4. Build up Parent-child Relationship
Child counseling is both beneficial for the child and the parent. Both of you and your child will learn more positive effective ways to communicate and how to deal with problems and issues. More comfortably you deal with your child or communicate; your child will trust you more. The stunning result of counselling is a strongest parent-child relationship.
Child counseling is a professional way of helping you judge your child’s behavior. A child therapist can help you find more about your child and learn practical and acceptable ways to address negative behaviors. Children are different nowadays. Social media, gadgets, and environmental factors are powerful in influencing your child’s character, personality, and behavior. That’s why you also need a powerful method to enter your child’s world through child counseling.